What The Problem Is?

Everyone knows I complain more than the average person. My family especially my father has no problem pointing this out to me. Although it may sound weird, sometimes it's fun to complain. For me it lightens the mood. I don't like to keep things bottled inside because no one wants me to explode. I rarely explode and I think it'd be upsetting and strange haha.



If the F train takes an hour to get to me, yes I'm going to complain. However, if my Mcdonald's fries are cold. I won't complain.



I complain when something interferes with my patience. I have absolutely no patience. I have been trying to work on this though, since New Years. It wasn't a New Years resolution. It was a spur of the moment "Ryan get some damn patience." I don't really complain about other things. Like I said if my fries are cold I won't throw a hissyfit.



Sometimes I don't know how my family and friends deal with my complaining. Maybe it's because I'm the only one in our group of friends that really complains. Who knows. But I know I'm extremely lucky. I guess I did something right in my life to have the friends I do. I have such amazing friends. The only way I can describe them is that they're better than your friends. And my family, nothing tops my family. They are the most amazing family ever.



So Why do I complain. I really can't tell you the real reason. Sometimes for fun, sometimes cause I really am pissed off, to start a convo, to see who's in agreement. I really don't know. But I'm Over Complaining. Again, I need to just be happy and say "Hey, Ok well today was a slap in the face, but tomorrow could be a slap on the ass ;)"

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"So If I pray, am I just sending the words into outer space?"

Little Things

The little things in life mean the most. This is something I, like most people, need to realize. I was thinking earlier about how excited I get over the smallest things. However, I tend to play both ends of the spectrum because I sometimes get upset over the smallest things. I'm going to try my hardest to keep finding the joy in the smallest things and to let the other little things go. There is no reason to stress over the small stuff when the big picture can mean so much more.




When I'm in a relationship, I love the little things. I love getting flowers, and hugs, and staying in to cuddle and watch movies. Alone time is so important in relationships and a lot of the time people forget that, and don't appreciate it. I would give a year of my life to spend an hour with the person I love. And if that person loves you, the feeling should be mutual.




So, today I will not let one little thing bother me and I will look for the greatness in the little things like I usually do. This will be my resolution for the day.




Speaking of resolutions. I never really understood New Year's resolutions. Anyone can have a resolution at any given time. We should wake up every day and make a resolution and stick to it, at least throughout the whole day.





So, I'm Over letting the smallest things bother me. It's time to look for the good in the smallest things and appreciate them.





"When you figure out love is all that matters after all, it sure makes everything else... seem so small."

Undo You

Dear You Know Who,

Since everything you ever said to me was a lie...



I'm Over You.

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This is my first blog post ever on my very own blog! I will probably end up talking way too much like I do in real life anyways. I guess I should start with a bio.




My name is Ryan, I am twenty years old and I live and go to school in New York City. Living in Manhattan is amazing, but it also has its downsides: such as men. It's pretty impossible to hold any type of relationship in Manhattan because to everyone else you're pretty much disposable. Everyone thinks they can just move on to the next person and forget about love. I don't know if I believe in love anymore. I know I'm only twenty I'm too young to think that. Well I never said I didn't and I never said I did. I just think our society is so messed up to the point where no one knows what they want anymore. It's always about instant gratification and if someone doesn't like one thing you do: NEXT! I believe the internet has ruined hope for relationships. It's so easy to flirt or whatever behind your partner's back. But whatever this is about me and not about how much I can't stand men. I'll get to that eventually.




Anyways, I was born in Connecticut, and moved to New York City when I was eighteen. I do not like Connecticut at all. If you would like to know the truth about Connecticut watch The Stepford Wives. That movie pretty much sums up the state. Since I am not fake in any way. I had to get out. So I did. Duh.




I went to Catholic schools for grammar school and high school. And while I am not the most religious person ever, I am completely grateful that my parents sent me to good schools, so that I was raised with morals and good values other than the ones that they instilled in me.




Family is the absolute most important thing to me. I would be nothing with them. And even my friends. I have the absolute most amazing friends in the world. You all know who you are :)




I love anything having to do with pop culture. I love Kelly Clarkson- she saved my life. Desperate Housewives is my favorite show. Reese Witherspoon my favorite actress.




So, you might ask why my blog is titled "Ryan is Over It." Well because I am. I'm over everything: people, places, things, events.




I'm over people tanning to the point where it looks like their skin is falling off.


I'm over people who can't hold a mature/committed relationship.


I'm over the cold weather.


I'm over Kristen Stewart and her awkward acting.


I'm over how big this woman on televisions forehead is.


I'm over people who don't know how to speak correctly.



I'm over a lot more than this. But you'll have to stay tuned. :)